A student asks a teacher, "What is love?"
The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the wheat field and choose the biggest wheat and come back.
But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."
The student went to the field, go thru first row, he saw one big wheat, but he wonders....may be there is a bigger one later.
Then he saw another bigger one... but may be there is an even bigger one waiting for him.
Later, when he finished more than half of the wheat field, he start to realize that the wheat is not as big as the previous one he saw, he know he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted.
So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand.
The teacher told him, "...this is love... you keep looking for a better one, but when later you realize, you have already miss the person.... "
“What is marriage then?" the student asked.
The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and come back. But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."
The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he reach the middle of the field, he has picked one medium corn that he feel satisfy, and come back to the teacher.
The teacher told him, "this time you bring back a corn.... you look for one that is just nice, and you have faith and believe this is the best one you get & this is marriage"
Sampeyan mo merried to mbak? selamat deh kalo gitu...kalo saya baru sebatas berani memikirkannya aja, kalo suruh merried sekarang yang maturnuwun deh...heheheReplyDelete
"if love is blind, then marriage is an eye opener"
And sometimes, we miss one and ask, where is she/he god?ReplyDelete
because never sure, and again
mhh ... it was
Pesan moral: sebelom merit kudu maen layangan dulu di ladang jagung. :)ReplyDelete
Hmmm, belum ambil mata kuliah tentang cinta, apalagi perkawinan. Tapi nampaknya memang indah untuk dijalani. Ayo, siapa yang mau jadi istriku kelak? :PReplyDelete
hidup adalah menentukan pilihan. apapun pilihan kita, itulah sebenarnya kita. Jangan pernah menyesal dengan apa yang telah kita pilih..ReplyDelete
Dan pertimbangkan dengan baik pilihanmu itu (istikharah).
Semoga Allah memberimu pasangan hidup yang terbaik (menurut-NYA).
memang dirimu mirip sama ibumu, sa. ahahaha... kok OOT sihReplyDelete
merrid itu uwenak loh....asalkan siap lahir bathin...ReplyDelete
mukanya ibunya mirip ama mba euy... cuma bedanya di alisnya... he..he...ReplyDelete
mirip ma ibu yah ^-^ReplyDelete
merried tuh sekali seumur hidup,,jadi mesti bener2 milih yang tepat :D
wah....manggil ortunya abah dan ibu juga yaa......?? sama aku juga manggil ortuku abah dan ibuReplyDelete